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Pepper Spray & Politics

February 18, 2025

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When Political Romance Misses the Mark

Political romance sounds promising on paper. Power. Intrigue. High-stakes environments. Unfortunately — as we learned while revisiting some older titles — execution matters and not all romances age gracefully.

For this round of reading, we tackled two political romance novels from the 1980s that left us more frustrated than swoony. Instead of delivering compelling love stories, both books highlighted troubling tropes that modern romance readers are far more likely to side-eye than celebrate.

If you’re curious how older political romances hold up today or want context before listening to our full podcast discussion, consider this your reader beware moment.

A Romance That Raises Red Flags

Nicole’s Book: Enemy in Camp by Janet Dailey

Enemy in Camp by Janet Dailey

One of our featured reads was Enemy in Camp, a political romance that leans heavily on power imbalance and questionable consent. The story follows Victoria Beaumont as she becomes the target of relentless attention from ambitious political journalist Dirk Ramsey.

What is framed as romantic pursuit quickly turns unsettling. Dirk’s behavior includes repeated unwanted advances, inappropriate physical contact and emotional pressure that strips Victoria of agency. Rather than building tension through mutual attraction, the story relies on coercion and persistence as substitutes for connection.

Reading this now, it’s impossible not to ask where the line between romance and harm was supposed to be. The answer, unfortunately, is unclear. The book serves as a reminder that chemistry without consent is not chemistry at all.

When Independence Isn’t Actually Respected

Meghan’s Book: The MacGregors: Alan & Grant by Nora Roberts

The MacGregors: Alan & Grant by Nora Roberts

On the other end of the spectrum, we read The MacGregors: Alan & Grant, which includes Alan McGregor’s story originally published as All the Possibilities. While this novel is less overtly dark, it still struggles with similar issues.

Shelby Campbell is positioned as an independent woman shaped by trauma following her senator father’s assassination. Despite her desire for autonomy, Senator Alan McGregor repeatedly ignores her boundaries under the guise of devotion.

While the tone is lighter than Enemy in Camp, the underlying message feels familiar. Persistence is framed as romantic. Discomfort is brushed aside. Autonomy becomes negotiable.

What These Books Have in Common

Despite differences in tone, neither novel manages to deliver a healthy romantic dynamic. Both stories rely on outdated ideas of pursuit where women’s resistance is treated as a challenge rather than a boundary.

As romance readers, we found ourselves craving emotional safety, mutual respect and genuine connection. Instead, we were left with relationships that felt imbalanced and unsatisfying.

Why We’re Talking About This Now

Revisiting older romance novels can be enlightening, especially when viewed through a modern lens. These books offer insight into how cultural narratives around love, power and consent have evolved and where the genre still has room to grow.

We explore all of this in much more depth on the podcast, where we unpack the discomfort, the history and, yes, the occasional unhinged moment that made us pause mid-read.

If you’re interested in how political romance has changed or want to hear our full, unfiltered reactions, we highly recommend checking out the episode.

Let’s Talk About It

Have you read either of these political romance novels? Did they work for you or leave you frustrated too? We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments.

If you want to dive into the full discussion, head over to the podcast episode page or find us on your favorite podcast platform.

Read the Books

We’d love to hear from you. Interested in reading these political-themed romance novels yourself? You can purchase Enemy in Camp here and All the Possibilities here. To learn more about bestselling romance author Nora Roberts, click here. And to learn more about classic author Janet Dailey, click here. Want to listen to the podcast episode? We’re available on pretty much all your favorite podcast streaming services. Or you can visit our podcast player page here.

Coincidentally, authors Dailey and Roberts are at the heart of a romance novel scandal involving plagiarism. We discuss the conflict in a special bonus episode of our podcast which you can listen to here.

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💋 Outdated relationship dynamics
💋 Why communication matters in romance novels
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We drink the drinks.
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🐈💥
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📖 Nicole’s Pick:
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Think:
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💋 sweeping drama
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Honestly?? Respect.
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🎧 Season 3 Episode 9: Fated Mates & Fake Wives is LIVE.
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☕ Tea + slow burn
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📖 Nicole’s Pick:
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✨ 1865 London
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✔️ strong heroine energy
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✨ dignity = questionable
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paired with
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🕵️‍♀️ a rule-breaking lady journalist
🔥 an annoyed (but intrigued) detective
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📚 strong opinions
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📖 Savannah Blues
📖 A Lady’s Guide to Mischief and Mayhem
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👉 when does a book stop being a romance?
🌶️ Spice levels
📚 genre debates
🍷 bookish banter
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Here’s what we’ve got coming your way this month on Romance on the Rocks 🍸💋
✨ April 14
Season 3 Episode 8: Chaste Kisses & Quiet Banging
👉 Murder, mystery and “is this even a romance?” energy
✨ April 28
Season 3 Episode 9: Fated Mates & Fake Wives
👉 Romantasy chaos meets messy emotional decisions
Two episodes. Two VERY different vibes. Same bookish biddy energy. 💅📖
So grab your TBR, your bevvie and come hang with us. 🥂
Which one are you most excited for??
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👀 Important question … Does décolletage count as a 👀 Important question …
Does décolletage count as a booby reference??
Because apparently …
we’re now debating:
✔️ boobs
✔️ bosoms
✔️ and historical cleavage terminology
Welcome to Romance on the Rocks where:
📚 we read the books
🍸 we drink the drinks
… and yes, we track the boobs. 🤷‍♀️
🎧 New episode drops TOMORROW!
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Hey, Romance on the Rocks Podcast fans! Podcast Co Hey, Romance on the Rocks Podcast fans! Podcast Co-Host Nicole went and did a thing ... she performed the audiobook narration for Anja Dae's Taken by the Northmen. It's a spicy Viking romance and we just wanted to share the Audiobook link in case you want to check it out! 

https://www.audible.com/pd/B0GVL5ZBV9/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-503128&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_503128_pd_us

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